Whore of an Ex Fiance

peterosesbookie · May 17, 2005, 04:14 AM

Where do I begin. I met this lovely lady through my nephew back in september 2004 (which is his girlfriend's sister). We started dating after her baby was born and I was there for the whole thing. Everything was okay then we went out to see the Nutcracker play and she came up with the fact that she was kissed by another guy and then she proceeded to say that it was a farse later and that she was trying to give me a way out of the relationship at that point in time in which I should have took it (dumb ass me). I then forgave her for that and that I would have 3 get out of jail free cards (you know what I mean). Everything was going okay for awhile then November she was supposedly pregnat with my baby as I was laying on a hospital death bed with heart problems stemming from a reaction to three of my different medicaitons causes the issue. Then 3 days later supposedly that she miscarried my baby (thank god) and did not tell anyone or me while I was in the hospital. She then got self pregnancy tests which showed positive for awhile there after then in October she went for her six week checkup and was diagnosed with HPV (gential warts) and never discussed the matter with me until I found the medication (Aldara) which she was treating herself with at the time. I confronted her with it open packages and she of course denied that she had them and did not have the disease. I was worried for awhile but then she finally admitted that she had the disease. I was very furious about this and I got another card. Our relationship starting breaking up from this point on (fighting arguing and sleeping in separate beds at times). This went on until March 24, 2005 when I lost my job that day and she left the next day. We had an agreement that she would pay her part of the cellphone bill and get her stuff out which I helped kick the bitch out. Then in April, I was diagnosed with HPV and am now being treated for it (surgery tomorrow may 17 2005). Now today, I get called from the police stating that I have been calling her all the time and harrassing her all the time over the phone which is a farse because I have all the phone records since january of this year from my cellphone and I am going to get my landline tomorrow for records. All in all this has been a very bad experience for me and I hope that no one else has to go through this being 13,000 dollars US in debt in credit.

Moral of the story:

Make sure your pastor approves of the relationship before going any further!

Peace out

pete

Sturmbahn · May 18, 2005, 03:06 AM

Well, if it makes you feel any better, HPV doesn't do anything special to men, but it does highly increase the chance of cervical cancer in women. If there are any other effects, I haven't yet seen anything on myself yet. My one and only sexual partner/fiance had others in her past, which she has thankfully been open about, and contracted HPV so odds are that I've got it by now. Only visits to the OBGYN every 3-6 months, depending on the state of remission, keep her from developing cervical cancer. The only bad side for you that I don't have is that you're a potential transmitter now. Oh well, sounds like staying with her would be worse.

May 17, 2005, 04:14 AM	#1
peterosesbookie HardwareHeaven Senior Member Join Date: May 2002 Location: OHIO Posts: 556 Rep Power: 0	Whore of an Ex Fiance Where do I begin. I met this lovely lady through my nephew back in september 2004 (which is his girlfriend's sister). We started dating after her baby was born and I was there for the whole thing. Everything was okay then we went out to see the Nutcracker play and she came up with the fact that she was kissed by another guy and then she proceeded to say that it was a farse later and that she was trying to give me a way out of the relationship at that point in time in which I should have took it (dumb ass me). I then forgave her for that and that I would have 3 get out of jail free cards (you know what I mean). Everything was going okay for awhile then November she was supposedly pregnat with my baby as I was laying on a hospital death bed with heart problems stemming from a reaction to three of my different medicaitons causes the issue. Then 3 days later supposedly that she miscarried my baby (thank god) and did not tell anyone or me while I was in the hospital. She then got self pregnancy tests which showed positive for awhile there after then in October she went for her six week checkup and was diagnosed with HPV (gential warts) and never discussed the matter with me until I found the medication (Aldara) which she was treating herself with at the time. I confronted her with it open packages and she of course denied that she had them and did not have the disease. I was worried for awhile but then she finally admitted that she had the disease. I was very furious about this and I got another card. Our relationship starting breaking up from this point on (fighting arguing and sleeping in separate beds at times). This went on until March 24, 2005 when I lost my job that day and she left the next day. We had an agreement that she would pay her part of the cellphone bill and get her stuff out which I helped kick the bitch out. Then in April, I was diagnosed with HPV and am now being treated for it (surgery tomorrow may 17 2005). Now today, I get called from the police stating that I have been calling her all the time and harrassing her all the time over the phone which is a farse because I have all the phone records since january of this year from my cellphone and I am going to get my landline tomorrow for records. All in all this has been a very bad experience for me and I hope that no one else has to go through this being 13,000 dollars US in debt in credit. Moral of the story: Make sure your pastor approves of the relationship before going any further! Peace out pete

May 18, 2005, 03:06 AM	#2
Sturmbahn DriverHeaven Lover Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 156 Rep Power: 0	Well, if it makes you feel any better, HPV doesn't do anything special to men, but it does highly increase the chance of cervical cancer in women. If there are any other effects, I haven't yet seen anything on myself yet. My one and only sexual partner/fiance had others in her past, which she has thankfully been open about, and contracted HPV so odds are that I've got it by now. Only visits to the OBGYN every 3-6 months, depending on the state of remission, keep her from developing cervical cancer. The only bad side for you that I don't have is that you're a potential transmitter now. Oh well, sounds like staying with her would be worse.