Women got you gonig crazy?

Tobey · Jul 21, 2006, 08:26 AM

Ok while I haven't personally done anything I found particularly crazy myself I've got a few friends that have gone off the walls for some women and just been absolutely crazy. I've recently been spending a lot of time with this one girl and the chemistry is there... hell I've had crazy ideas just haven't followed through with them.

I'm wondering... what is the craziest/stupidest/most outrageous thing you've done for/to/at a women?

And answer this... how do these women get these guys to be so dumb?

CDsDontBurn · Jul 21, 2006, 09:11 AM

spend all my money on a gold digging [woman] who said, "oh, i don't like guys for their money"

pt. 2: gullable.

SFOSOK · Jul 21, 2006, 09:24 AM

Well...

I choked a kid out and almost got slammed with attempted murder (he hit a girl who was a friend of mine), Brought down my entire school GPA by 1 point (AKA 2.75 to 1.80...) so I could switch schools to be closer to this one girl I was goin out with, got engaged to her and didn't go into the Army for her (at first that is), and I've snuck out to the point my parents didn't care as long as I wasn't dead.

So thats about it. Goin to go star gazin with a broad monday night (my idea cause I love to watch the stars, its an easy way to talk too).

Edit: Also you can take a look at this thread

http://driverheaven.net/showthread.php?t=112282

SFOSOK · Jul 21, 2006, 09:27 AM

How do they do it? Guys are easy to read and it depends on what stage you are at in life, what you want from it, and what you think about love.

Also if you have strong principle you are a moron. People can get other's to d othe most moronic things based on principle and spite.

SFOSOK · Jul 21, 2006, 09:53 AM

The way I see it there are only 3 things a guy can fight for in this world.

God, Country, Wife. In that order

TJ- · Jul 21, 2006, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by SFOSOK

The way I see it there are only 3 things a guy can fight for in this world.

God, Country, Wife. In that order

Money? Power? Respect? Revenge?

Zardon · Jul 21, 2006, 10:08 AM

3 posts in a row, you certainly are trying to hit that 5k before you leave SFOSOK, eh? try the "edit" button ....

As for women, well I dont think you ever understand them fully but once you realise they arent to be understood then its much better, just use them for what you need without hurting them too much and it works for me. You get better at this as you get older. I think we all do the silly things when we are younger then you realise its not really worth it. I see quite a lot of you guys in the teenage years seem to be having major issues lately with women, only advice I can give would be not to get too attached to any woman and just do your own thing. Example? you want to go out with your mates but you have arranged to go out with a lady that night. Phone her up, cancel it and go out with your mates. This has a double edged effect, in that, you do what you want and have a laugh with your mates, and secondly, women LOVE it if you dont turn up or miss dates as they have to work harder. The more you work harder, the less they do. So let them do all the work. Plenty of women out there anyway.

Al_Vampyre · Jul 21, 2006, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Zardon

3 posts in a row, you certainly are trying to hit that 5k before you leave SFOSOK, eh? try the "edit" button ....

As for women, well I dont think you ever understand them fully but once you realise they arent to be understood then its much better, just use them for what you need without hurting them too much and it works for me. You get better at this as you get older. I think we all do the silly things when we are younger then you realise its not really worth it. I see quite a lot of you guys in the teenage years seem to be having major issues lately with women, only advice I can give would be not to get too attached to any woman and just do your own thing. Example? you want to go out with your mates but you have arranged to go out with a lady that night. Phone her up, cancel it and go out with your mates. This has a double edged effect, in that, you do what you want and have a laugh with your mates, and secondly, women LOVE it if you dont turn up or miss dates as they have to work harder. The more you work harder, the less they do. So let them do all the work. Plenty of women out there anyway.

Z you've turned into a misogynist!!

There is truth in what you say though, no relationship should be so one-sided that you lose sight of who you are and only do what makes someone else happy, problem is when you're in the situation you don't realise that your actions are all that abnormal...

No one person should be able to monopolize your life it's your life after all not theirs.

~~Alien1~~ · Jul 21, 2006, 12:08 PM

You can call me a misogynist too then

I mostly agree with Zardon in these
That's what i also see in today females

Unfortunately that's what relationships and ethics are today
like it or not

Use them for what you need before they use you for what they need and before they get bored for some reason or dump you for the next guy in the corner of the street that they suddenly have the hots

If someone wants to get hurt ,because today women are mostly unfaithfull and not only men, it's not going to be me

Just F* her and if you see things starting to become stale then go to the next one

YAYitsAndrew · Jul 21, 2006, 12:20 PM

I've been dating this girl for three years and I must say, sometimes I wish I could go down different avenues that have opened up, if you catch my drift *raises eyebrows*

LeanWolf · Jul 21, 2006, 12:45 PM

absolutely nothing. All my life they've come to me. I learned a long time ago the less effort spent, the more interested they are.

SFOSOK · Jul 21, 2006, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by LeanWolf

absolutely nothing. All my life they've come to me. I learned a long time ago the less effort spent, the more interested they are.

Very true actually. And as long as you don't change anything for them you weren't already changing then things usually work out decently.

pr0digal jenius · Jul 21, 2006, 08:32 PM

Zardon is right [imagine that

]...however, don't use that advice and reasoning as a crutch to get your way all the time, else you'll find yourself out on your ass more often then not. Best thing I can say, is that if you find the right one, she'll realize she isn't the only person you itneract and be OK with you going out with your friends.

Learn to guage how important stuff is to her...anniversaries, birthdays, etc...make sure and remember them and plan accordingly [I blew our first anniversary and am still getting it fired across my face now and again

], and do atleast attempt to plan ahead a bit when going out with your mates. "Baby, I'm not going to be able to come over this friday cuz me and the guys are hangin out at the bowling alley for $5 pitcher night" is a lot better then "Baby....yes...i know it's loud...I'm at the bowling alley...sorry...."

LuCifer · Jul 21, 2006, 08:43 PM

Man I walked like a mile alone through COMPTON to go see my lady at school.. Compton High by the way I think thats crazy.. becuase Im still alive, everything else is pretty crazy but not as crazy lol

YAYitsAndrew · Jul 21, 2006, 09:07 PM

Fuck that anniversary stuff coming back. Girls love to hold on to shit and just bring it up again and again. Make a deal with her; if something is over a week old, it's no longer able to be brought up. You're probably already doing this cause you're a guy. But it forces her to come to you with problems within the week or stfu.

Next time she screws up it won't come flying back in your face about how you stepped on her toes three years ago.

SFOSOK · Jul 21, 2006, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by LuCifer

Man I walked like a mile alone through COMPTON to go see my lady at school.. Compton High by the way I think thats crazy.. becuase Im still alive, everything else is pretty crazy but not as crazy lol

Cali Compton right? I've been there.

If you go through once you should be ok but a guy I know (huge ass guy) drove down there like every other week and he got his car shot up. It was good for him though cause he is not so angry and just lucky to be alive

LuCifer · Jul 22, 2006, 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by SFOSOK

Cali Compton right? I've been there.

If you go through once you should be ok but a guy I know (huge ass guy) drove down there like every other week and he got his car shot up. It was good for him though cause he is not so angry and just lucky to be alive

lol Yeah Cali compton.. Yeah you're friends pretty lucky..

mainman · Jul 22, 2006, 08:24 AM

Aww too many crazy shyt to name. Dated this one girl for 7 years...been married to her for 2 years..that on it's own is really crazy soo...

CDsDontBurn · Jul 22, 2006, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Zardon

Phone her up, cancel it and go out with your mates. This has a double edged effect, in that, you do what you want and have a laugh with your mates

you sure that works??? cuz last time i tried that, i ended up wrecking my car and nearly dying...

mainman · Jul 22, 2006, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by CDsDontBurn

you sure that works??? cuz last time i tried that, i ended up wrecking my car and nearly dying...

Markius · Jul 22, 2006, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Zardon

....well I dont think you ever understand them fully but once you realise they arent to be understood then its much better......

QFT

and way to spam it up SFOSOK

LuCifer · Jul 22, 2006, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by CDsDontBurn

you sure that works??? cuz last time i tried that, i ended up wrecking my car and nearly dying...

Dang...

Geminiwave · Jul 22, 2006, 11:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zardon

3 posts in a row, you certainly are trying to hit that 5k before you leave SFOSOK, eh? try the "edit" button ....

As for women, well I dont think you ever understand them fully but once you realise they arent to be understood then its much better, just use them for what you need without hurting them too much and it works for me. You get better at this as you get older. I think we all do the silly things when we are younger then you realise its not really worth it. I see quite a lot of you guys in the teenage years seem to be having major issues lately with women, only advice I can give would be not to get too attached to any woman and just do your own thing. Example? you want to go out with your mates but you have arranged to go out with a lady that night. Phone her up, cancel it and go out with your mates. This has a double edged effect, in that, you do what you want and have a laugh with your mates, and secondly, women LOVE it if you dont turn up or miss dates as they have to work harder. The more you work harder, the less they do. So let them do all the work. Plenty of women out there anyway.

yeah actually my best friend's ex was after me for a long time and I treated her like total shit because I wanted her to go away...it just made her try harder and harder to get me and eventually she was quite literally on her knees begging to get in my pants. Now this girl is crazy...but shes hot. That was a hard one to turn down.

My current girlfriend is actually my ex as of now. She transfered schools. She was never happy here and was only hanging around because of me but I basically told her that she needed to be happy and get the hell out of here. So she did. She was sad...she cried alot...but she'll be happier.

I've only had one girlfriend that was really a problem. And thats cause I let her crazyness get to me.

still. I disagree with your philosophy Al. Theres something to be said for concerning yourself with the other person's feelings instead of "just [using] them for what you need without hurting them too much"

Falstaff · Jul 23, 2006, 12:43 AM

a fools journey...to understand the fairer sex
when you've figured it out, try guessing what is next

predict her emotions and her heart when she expresses her love
embrace her with passion and drink her like wine from the heavens above

Intoxicated your body and mind deliriously become
love and touch and feel it all now before you will become predictably numb.

jeff fallang -- 2006

the_penguin · Jul 23, 2006, 12:51 AM

yeah, women are a strange creature. Of course, i am one. Some girls make me want to go up to them and bitch slap them and say wake up and smell the coffee.

Women think that they can get a guy to be attracted to them by any means necessary.

Love is Blind. and some just don't want to take off their blinders.

But that is my opinion.

**dj_stick** · Jul 23, 2006, 02:42 AM

haha nice post

i recently came out of a 20mth relationship (by recently i mean on tuesday) and it's been more of a relief than anything, which is really strange

Falstaff · Jul 23, 2006, 02:45 AM

been married three times and have had my trists and affairs...wouldnt change it for the world..

LuCifer · Jul 23, 2006, 07:10 AM

lol I wouldnt say use them.. because the girl im with now Owns so hard it makes me want to cry.. lol nah jk but yeah this girl rocks pretty hard, harder than the previous crazy b17cH35

CDsDontBurn · Jul 23, 2006, 10:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dj_stick

i recently came out of a 20mth relationship (by recently i mean on tuesday) and it's been more of a relief than anything, which is really strange

relief = no pain = no gain

**dj_stick** · Jul 23, 2006, 10:53 PM

oh there was pain, but it didn't last for too long

Jul 21, 2006, 08:26 AM	#1
Tobey DriverHeaven Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 598 Rep Power: 0	Women got you gonig crazy? Ok while I haven't personally done anything I found particularly crazy myself I've got a few friends that have gone off the walls for some women and just been absolutely crazy. I've recently been spending a lot of time with this one girl and the chemistry is there... hell I've had crazy ideas just haven't followed through with them. I'm wondering... what is the craziest/stupidest/most outrageous thing you've done for/to/at a women? And answer this... how do these women get these guys to be so dumb? __________________ [COLOR=Red][COLOR=Black][/COLOR] [COLOR=Black]Thanks Guyver2k5 for the sig![/COLOR][/COLOR] [COLOR=Red]•[/COLOR][COLOR=Black]Windows XP Professional[/COLOR][COLOR=Red]•[/COLOR] [COLOR=Black]1024MB ram[/COLOR][COLOR=Red]•[/COLOR][COLOR=Red] •[/COLOR][COLOR=Black]P4-2.8GHZ[/COLOR][COLOR=Red]•[/COLOR][COLOR=Black]Radeon X1600 PRO 512MB[/COLOR][COLOR=Red]• [/COLOR]

Jul 21, 2006, 09:11 AM	#2
CDsDontBurn Lurking DriverHeaven Join Date: May 2003 Location: Southern California Posts: 22,795 Rep Power: 235 System Specs	spend all my money on a gold digging [woman] who said, "oh, i don't like guys for their money" pt. 2: gullable. __________________ Her First Day \| A year later

Jul 21, 2006, 09:24 AM	#3
SFOSOK 939 Goin Strong Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Ontario Posts: 7,033 Rep Power: 90 System Specs	Well... I choked a kid out and almost got slammed with attempted murder (he hit a girl who was a friend of mine), Brought down my entire school GPA by 1 point (AKA 2.75 to 1.80...) so I could switch schools to be closer to this one girl I was goin out with, got engaged to her and didn't go into the Army for her (at first that is), and I've snuck out to the point my parents didn't care as long as I wasn't dead. So thats about it. Goin to go star gazin with a broad monday night (my idea cause I love to watch the stars, its an easy way to talk too). Edit: Also you can take a look at this thread http://driverheaven.net/showthread.php?t=112282 __________________ Warning - Explicit Content Preceeding METAL!!

Jul 21, 2006, 09:27 AM	#4
SFOSOK 939 Goin Strong Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Ontario Posts: 7,033 Rep Power: 90 System Specs	How do they do it? Guys are easy to read and it depends on what stage you are at in life, what you want from it, and what you think about love. Also if you have strong principle you are a moron. People can get other's to d othe most moronic things based on principle and spite. __________________ Warning - Explicit Content Preceeding METAL!!

Jul 21, 2006, 09:53 AM	#5
SFOSOK 939 Goin Strong Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Ontario Posts: 7,033 Rep Power: 90 System Specs	The way I see it there are only 3 things a guy can fight for in this world. God, Country, Wife. In that order __________________ Warning - Explicit Content Preceeding METAL!!

Jul 21, 2006, 10:08 AM	#7
Zardon DriverHeaven Founder Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 32,480 Rep Power: 179	3 posts in a row, you certainly are trying to hit that 5k before you leave SFOSOK, eh? try the "edit" button .... As for women, well I dont think you ever understand them fully but once you realise they arent to be understood then its much better, just use them for what you need without hurting them too much and it works for me. You get better at this as you get older. I think we all do the silly things when we are younger then you realise its not really worth it. I see quite a lot of you guys in the teenage years seem to be having major issues lately with women, only advice I can give would be not to get too attached to any woman and just do your own thing. Example? you want to go out with your mates but you have arranged to go out with a lady that night. Phone her up, cancel it and go out with your mates. This has a double edged effect, in that, you do what you want and have a laugh with your mates, and secondly, women LOVE it if you dont turn up or miss dates as they have to work harder. The more you work harder, the less they do. So let them do all the work. Plenty of women out there anyway.

Jul 21, 2006, 12:08 PM	#9
~~Alien1~~ Banned Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Europe Posts: 365 Rep Power: 0	You can call me a misogynist too then I mostly agree with Zardon in these That's what i also see in today females Unfortunately that's what relationships and ethics are today like it or not Use them for what you need before they use you for what they need and before they get bored for some reason or dump you for the next guy in the corner of the street that they suddenly have the hots If someone wants to get hurt ,because today women are mostly unfaithfull and not only men, it's not going to be me Just F* her and if you see things starting to become stale then go to the next one Last edited by Alien1; Jul 21, 2006 at 05:30 PM.

Jul 21, 2006, 12:20 PM	#10
YAYitsAndrew Anti-Piracy Poster Boy Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: NJ Posts: 2,605 Rep Power: 79 System Specs	I've been dating this girl for three years and I must say, sometimes I wish I could go down different avenues that have opened up, if you catch my drift raises eyebrows __________________ "It is because the resistance to paying for copyrighted material, although often characterized as arising from a supposed technical burden or principled concern for the public interest, arises rather from exactly the same segment of the brain that is dominant in shoplifters." - Mark Helprin, Digital Barbarism In other words, it's never okay to steal even if you think you have a good reason! www.yayitsandrew.com

Jul 21, 2006, 12:45 PM	#11
LeanWolf alpha male Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Skyrim Posts: 5,713 Rep Power: 84 System Specs	absolutely nothing. All my life they've come to me. I learned a long time ago the less effort spent, the more interested they are. __________________

Jul 21, 2006, 08:32 PM	#13
pr0digal jenius Delete Me Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 14,648 Rep Power: 0	Zardon is right [imagine that ]...however, don't use that advice and reasoning as a crutch to get your way all the time, else you'll find yourself out on your ass more often then not. Best thing I can say, is that if you find the right one, she'll realize she isn't the only person you itneract and be OK with you going out with your friends. Learn to guage how important stuff is to her...anniversaries, birthdays, etc...make sure and remember them and plan accordingly [I blew our first anniversary and am still getting it fired across my face now and again ], and do atleast attempt to plan ahead a bit when going out with your mates. "Baby, I'm not going to be able to come over this friday cuz me and the guys are hangin out at the bowling alley for $5 pitcher night" is a lot better then "Baby....yes...i know it's loud...I'm at the bowling alley...sorry...."

Jul 21, 2006, 08:43 PM	#14
LuCifer DH sig maker! Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Fontucky Posts: 1,158 Rep Power: 0	Man I walked like a mile alone through COMPTON to go see my lady at school.. Compton High by the way I think thats crazy.. becuase Im still alive, everything else is pretty crazy but not as crazy lol __________________

Jul 21, 2006, 09:07 PM	#15
YAYitsAndrew Anti-Piracy Poster Boy Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: NJ Posts: 2,605 Rep Power: 79 System Specs	Fuck that anniversary stuff coming back. Girls love to hold on to shit and just bring it up again and again. Make a deal with her; if something is over a week old, it's no longer able to be brought up. You're probably already doing this cause you're a guy. But it forces her to come to you with problems within the week or stfu. Next time she screws up it won't come flying back in your face about how you stepped on her toes three years ago. __________________ "It is because the resistance to paying for copyrighted material, although often characterized as arising from a supposed technical burden or principled concern for the public interest, arises rather from exactly the same segment of the brain that is dominant in shoplifters." - Mark Helprin, Digital Barbarism In other words, it's never okay to steal even if you think you have a good reason! www.yayitsandrew.com

Jul 22, 2006, 08:24 AM	#18
mainman Mr. Nobody Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: OmniPresent Nightwatcher Posts: 5,961 Rep Power: 71	Aww too many crazy shyt to name. Dated this one girl for 7 years...been married to her for 2 years..that on it's own is really crazy soo... __________________

Jul 23, 2006, 12:43 AM	#24
Falstaff Old Codger Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: USAFA Posts: 19,048 Rep Power: 207	a fools journey...to understand the fairer sex when you've figured it out, try guessing what is next predict her emotions and her heart when she expresses her love embrace her with passion and drink her like wine from the heavens above Intoxicated your body and mind deliriously become love and touch and feel it all now before you will become predictably numb. jeff fallang -- 2006 __________________ "Inspiration is always a surprising visitor."

Jul 23, 2006, 12:51 AM	#25
the_penguin DriverHeaven Lover Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: usa Posts: 161 Rep Power: 0	yeah, women are a strange creature. Of course, i am one. Some girls make me want to go up to them and bitch slap them and say wake up and smell the coffee. Women think that they can get a guy to be attracted to them by any means necessary. Love is Blind. and some just don't want to take off their blinders. But that is my opinion. __________________ My Website ... Check out my Artwork !!

Jul 23, 2006, 02:45 AM	#27
Falstaff Old Codger Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: USAFA Posts: 19,048 Rep Power: 207	been married three times and have had my trists and affairs...wouldnt change it for the world.. __________________ "Inspiration is always a surprising visitor."

Jul 23, 2006, 07:10 AM	#28
LuCifer DH sig maker! Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Fontucky Posts: 1,158 Rep Power: 0	lol I wouldnt say use them.. because the girl im with now Owns so hard it makes me want to cry.. lol nah jk but yeah this girl rocks pretty hard, harder than the previous crazy b17cH35 __________________